“The only boy I love” – a poignant story for Valentine’s Day

William James Martin and Emily Chitticks. From IWM Documents.2554

William James Martin and Emily Chitticks. From IWM Documents.2554

During the First World War, letter writing was the main form of communication between soldiers and their loved ones, helping to ease the pain of separation. The British Army Postal Service delivered around 2 billion letters during the war. In this blog post we share the moving story of William James Martin and Emily Ellen Chitticks, two sweethearts brought together and then separated by war.


  • William and Emily

William (known as Will) was born in 1897 in Cornwall, and worked as a farm hand. He joined the Royal Devon Yeomanry soon after the outbreak of war in 1914, and embarked on military training in Essex.

It was here that he met Emily Chitticks, who was the same age and was working as a servant in Suffolk House, Herongate. According to Emily’s carefully written notes, the couple met on 9 August 1916.

Father says he will be only too pleased to welcome you as his future son-in-law

After Will was moved on to a training camp in Norfolk, they began to write letters to each other. They enjoyed a whirlwind romance and became engaged just weeks later on 27 October.

Despite initially hoping to spend Christmas together in Cornwall, Will volunteered to go to Devonport and left for France on 5 December 1916 with 8 Battalion Devonshire Regiment.


  •  Off to the front

If only this war was over, dear, and we were together again

Will arrived on the Western Front in the winter of 1916-17 and he and Emily continued their correspondence. Their letters beautifully illustrate their growing love and affection, and their desire to be reunited.

Will wrote his last letter to Emily on 24 March 1917. Three days later, he was killed by a sniper. Unaware of his death, Emily wrote to him the following day – her letter was returned, with the envelope marked ‘Killed in action’.

Envelope and letter returned to Emily after Will's death. From IWM Documents.2554

Envelope and letter returned to Emily after Will’s death. From IWM Documents.2554


  • Remembrance

Emily never married, declaring ‘my heart and love are buried in his grave in France’.

Sacred to the memory of my darling sweetheart Will, the only boy I love

She died in 1974 and her treasured letters were donated to Imperial War Museums.



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2 Responses to “The only boy I love” – a poignant story for Valentine’s Day

  1. Val Higgs says:

    My father was a grocer’s assistant when war broke out.The second son of a farmer, his older brother had joined the army early in the war and he was impatient to join him.He sailed for France aboard the HMAT Nestor on 21/11/1917 and a notification was received from the Army 3 months later Which stated:- 22/2/1918 WW Service No. 7442——He was in the front line trench during an enemy raid. A particularly heavy bombardment was put down by the enemy-the trench was blown in, in several places and this man was buried by shell burst on a parapet 3-4 yards away. He was helped out by his mates.
    Another story has been revealed since going through his personal effects after his death. A book,titled “In Memorium” and the details of a soldier with the same surname as my father was found, in pristine condition, from 1919, and I was asked to research to find out if he was related to our family. I found the he had enlisted at the same time as my father,his service number was close, 7444, and he sailed on the same ship to Europe as my father. It appears that they became friends and continued to serve together until shortly before the Armistice when I found a report by my father to the Red Cross giving details of his death in battle. My father had seen him hit by a sniper’s bullet, he died almost immediately and my father reported that he went to him where he had fallen to check on him, without success.
    He never spoke of his friendship with this man, but he never had a close friendship ever again. The friendship must have meant a lot to my father, he never spoke of it, but he privatly kept that book in perfect condition for more than 55 years.
    He raised a family of 4 boys and 3 girls and we knew that he suffered greatly from his war experience.

  2. Val Higgs says:

    I greatly admire Women like Emily who can remain faithful to a memory like that for their entire lives. It seems that my father remained faithful to his war comrade and never confided in anyone.

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